June 24th, 2012 
FatCow Is it fair of him to dump me because of this?
I kinda didn’t follow my diet too well and ended up gaining about 5lb and he says its too fat and i cant go out with him
is 99lb 5’5 that fat? would 5lb even make a difference?
Chosen Answer:
Don’t listen to him, don’t give this a moment’s thought. He said what he said to hurt you, to insult you, to drive you away. You can’t possibly trust him to have been being open and honest with you at the exact moment that he was breaking up with you.
If you’re really concerned about your weight, see a doctor. Please don’t obsess about your weight, even if a boy you liked said something hurtful. Obsessing about weight and diet leads to anorexia which is a very unhealthy way to live. Eat sensibly, exercise regularly, don’t drink too much alcohol or do drugs, and you’ll be fine with respect to your weight.
Gain some confidence in yourself. Some boys only care about looks, true — but the boys worth having will also care about your personality, they will want you to be smart and funny and considerate. In the long run, those things are more important than physical attractiveness anyway. And the best way to attract a boy is to be confident in yourself.
Finally, get a new and better boyfriend. It shouldn’t be too hard to do better than this loser.
by: burtlikko
on: 28th March 11
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Yes he has every right to
You’re underweight, not overweight. Gaining that 5lbs made you 5lbs healthier.
you could gain 20 pounds and that still wouldn’t be fat
you need to lose 40 pounds.
no, that isn’t his reason, because your not fat!, and don’t stay with a guy that doesn’t treat you good
if he really liked you he would never called you a fat cow, everyone divers to be liked for who they are and not what they look like
and 99 lbs in not fat at all, you have nothing to worry about
Oh, my goodness!
hehe. but for real, 5’5″ and 99 lbs is NOT fat at ALL. You are SKINNY, girl. Sweetheart, you could afford to gain about 10 or even 20 lbs and I bet it’d even look good on you.
I’m 5’4″ and 118 lbs, and I’m not fat…Please don’t let anyone tell you that you are! And obviously if you’re typing this you aren’t a cow
Your ex is a JERK and no one deserves to be treated like that. Move on to someone who’ll treat you right.
That’s a perfectly healthy weight don’t listen to him! Please don’t take this the wrong way but find someone who likes you or who you are not cuz u gain 5 meaningless pounds. Weight is just a number and you sound very thin and healthy
not at all…!its totally wrong wat he did was…
1st f al….gainin or losing wait isn’t a matter at all…
if he loved u truly he shud b by ur side always….
WHAT?? He’s a jerk and you are better off hun. You are underweight if anything.
Is your self esteem that low? 5’5 and 99 pounds is skinny as hell! Obviously you’re not physically fat, which means you have an incredibly emotionally abusive boyfriend! Five pounds to your 5’5 height would actually be beneficial in balancing you out and making you more healthy! Tell your ex to go date a stick instead of a girl, because honestly you are no where near fat. You need to stop thinking that way and get yourself into therapy before you hurt yourself even more. At your weight you don’t need to be on a diet. Just eat healthy and you’ll be fine.
I really do recommend going to a therapist.
fat?… your kiddin right, as a guy i’m sorry for idiots like him
If you are at a farm and have fur,black and white spots then your a fat cow.No you are not.
PLEASE !!! You ex is very mean, please dont try to get back together with him. If you are under a 100lbs at any height, you are not fat. You could be 5′ 0 and 100lbs and still not be fat. Do not let a man tell you anything about your body. You dont need to diet either, just exercise, be active and find a guy that likes you for who you are. He is not worth your time if he going to insult you saying mean things like that.
he’s not worth your time. honestly. and if you think you are too fat you have issues as well. i think you need to move on and find someone who loves you unconditionally.
you are so skinny and probably gorgeous. he just was looking for a way to get out of the relationship. he is being emotionally abusive please stop texting or seeing him. he isnt worth it u will find somoene hotter and better to u
Your ex bf is just using the weight issue as a reason for breaking up with you. You are not overweight. Not by a long shot. If anything, your thin. He’s just a jerk. If he wants to break up, that’s ok. Lets face it , it happens. But at least be polite about it. Why be hurtful. He’s a jerk and you’re luck to be rid of him.
5’5 99 pounds is actually underweight, u add another five pounds it’s still a pretty small amount of weight.He’s either really shallow and likes his girls anorexic or he may have broken up with u for another different reason.I think u can do a lot better.
Um ur kinda too skinny for your height I’m 5’5 and a 120llbs and I’ma freaking toothpick like literally and my bmi is 19.5 normal weight 18.5 is underweight I’m only 10points frm being under weight you gotta gain some weight and f ur boyfriend he’s a douchebagg you ain’t overweight not even close
People who say those stuff don’t have a heart but a mouth. They don’t know what loving some one really is. But they do know how to say “you need to loose 40 pounds”. If generally loved you, looks wouldn’t matter. What matters is your personality and who you are inside and out. Your not fat or near fat. So don’t freak out because everyone gains weight.
i would smack him silly! Thats a stupid reason to break up with someone. They werent worth your time if they really left you over something that is clearly not true. Also 5lbs would not make a big difference, 50lbs would.
omfg u are underweight! u need to get help girl, cause damn, ur way too skinny. u don’t need a diet.
no he just wanted to find a reason to leave leave you. and that was not a good reason you don’t sound fat to me. Look into the mirror and tell yourself that you love the girl you see. No man has the reason to leave for that reason. If a man loved you, he would love you no matter what. The inside is what count not the outside.
No he obviously was scared or some other reason. It doesn’t matter though, hon. You can’t blame yourself because someone breaks up with you. If you feel fat, work out but it should be about YOU. You need to love yourself for who and how you are. No one should ever be dumped because of weight. It’s shallow. If you’re in a relationship, it should be because you love that person. If they ditch you because of physical appearance then it’s not love. If you’re in a relationship you talk about things out of concern for the other or your needs/wants. Maybe after ten or probably more like twenty pounds you’d say something like ‘Hon, I think you’ve gained some weight. We should get a gym membership together.’ But you sure as sh*t don’t break up with them! I would’ve slapped him. But for serious.
Don’t listen to him, don’t give this a moment’s thought. He said what he said to hurt you, to insult you, to drive you away. You can’t possibly trust him to have been being open and honest with you at the exact moment that he was breaking up with you.
If you’re really concerned about your weight, see a doctor. Please don’t obsess about your weight, even if a boy you liked said something hurtful. Obsessing about weight and diet leads to anorexia which is a very unhealthy way to live. Eat sensibly, exercise regularly, don’t drink too much alcohol or do drugs, and you’ll be fine with respect to your weight.
Gain some confidence in yourself. Some boys only care about looks, true — but the boys worth having will also care about your personality, they will want you to be smart and funny and considerate. In the long run, those things are more important than physical attractiveness anyway. And the best way to attract a boy is to be confident in yourself.
Finally, get a new and better boyfriend. It shouldn’t be too hard to do better than this loser.
no, he’s not. your not anywhere near fat. your height should be between 95-115.