Is it fair of him to dump me because of this?
I kinda didn’t follow my diet too well and ended up gaining about 5lb and he says its too fat and i cant go out with him
is 99lb 5’5 that fat? would 5lb even make a difference?
Don’t listen to him, don’t give this a moment’s thought. He said what he said to hurt you, to insult you, to drive you away. You can’t possibly trust him to have been being open and honest with you at the exact moment that he was breaking up with you.
If you’re really concerned about your weight, see a doctor. Please don’t obsess about your weight, even if a boy you liked said something hurtful. Obsessing about weight and diet leads to anorexia which is a very unhealthy way to live. Eat sensibly, exercise regularly, don’t drink too much alcohol or do drugs, and you’ll be fine with respect to your weight.
Gain some confidence in yourself. Some boys only care about looks, true — but the boys worth having will also care about your personality, they will want you to be smart and funny and considerate. In the long run, those things are more important than physical attractiveness anyway. And the best way to attract a boy is to be confident in yourself.
Finally, get a new and better boyfriend. It shouldn’t be too hard to do better than this loser.
on: 28th March 11